Thursday, May 31, 2012

The Doctrine of Creation and Raising Kids

Nothing is more important to parenting than presenting the gospel to our children.  Speaking the words of life, urging them to receive the salvation provided by Jesus, should be our top priority.  In order to do this first priority, we also need to regularly introduce the doctrine of creation into their worldview as well.  Unfortunately, the doctrine of creation is more often assumed in our parenting. It can be assumed when we discipline our children for their disobedience.  It can be assumed when we urge them to believe in the Lord Jesus. It can be assumed when we warn them of God's judgement.  My appeal is that this foundational doctrine no longer be assumed, but discussed consistently.

Our children will grow up in a post-Enlightenment, post Darwinian world--where supernatural reality is laughable and ultimate purpose is ludicrous.  They will breath in the atmosphere of pragmatic, functional atheism every day of their lives and will be encouraged and applauded toward self-determinism and finding their motive for living "within."  However, the doctrine of creation frees us from the endless task of "finding ourselves" and of "searching for our purpose."  Our identity and our purpose is not something we find; its not something we create.  It has already been given to us.

"God created all things. God created me."  This is the foundation of our existence and should be the bedrock of our parenting.  My life direction and purpose has already been established.  As a created being I am owned by my Creator, my purpose is established by him, and my boundaries are placed by his hands.  All that I am meant to be has been defined by someone outside of me and my success or failure in fulfilling my destiny is evaluated by the person who decreed my destiny in the first place.  To seek to "find myself"--if that means to create my own plan for my life--or to "find my purpose in life"--if that means to search for a direction that seems fulfilling to me--is to start the discussion in the wrong place.  These are not decisions for me to make; they have already been made by my Creator.  (Now, I am not erasing the necessity of decision making in the particulars of our calling--who we marry, what job we take, where we go to school, etc. I know that God hasn't spelled out every detail in his Word. My concern is whether the discussion begins with what he has spelled out--that our purpose is found in him since we belong to him.) 

The reason this is so crucial in parenting is that if we only apply the implications of creation, while our children live in the world of subjectivism, all of our parenting will eventually seem groundless. Here's what I mean:

If our children are not certain that God created all things, whey should they believe the Bible?
If our children are not certain that God made them, why should they have to obey Him?
If our children are not certain that they belong to God, why should their disobedience matter?
If our children are not certain that God will evaluate what he created, why should they seek his salvation?
Why be fearful of a God who doesn't own you, desperate for a God who didn't make you?

If we are going to accomplish our first priority of preaching the gospel to our children, we must also present the reality and implications of creation to them.  Otherwise, our gospel will just be one more subjective fairytale that they may or may not choose to believe.

Thursday, May 24, 2012

Resolved 2010 - CJ Mahaney teaches to preach the gospel to yourself

Why do I exist?

Why do I exist?
Many of us would say that we exist to obey God, to honor his kingship, to declare his sovereign rule through lives of righteousness that acknowledge his reign in our hearts.  This is certainly an excellent. Biblical answer. There is nothing wrong with this answer and all of it can be well defended Scripturally.

However, if we always define our calling in terms of obedience we run the risk of neglecting another equally accurate, Biblical answer to this question.

Why do I exist? 
I exist to know God, to love him and enjoy his presence and admire his character. I exist to give him thanks for the overwhelming blessings of grace in my life. I exist to explore the eternal attributes that make him the One and only God and to enjoy those attributes through the privilege of communion with him.  In the language of Revelation, I exist to see his face. 

We cannot truly know God unless we are obeying God--since disobedience is intentionally turning away from God.  We cannot truly obey God unless we know him, since it is only our knowledge of him that motivates true obedience. Most well-taught Christians would fully acknowledge the rightness of both answers.  But often our functional definition of our calling is revealed through an emphasis on one answer to the neglect of the other.  If we always answer by saying "I exist to obey God" or "I exist to know God" it's possible that we will be missing an important part of our calling.  We exist to know.  We exist to obey.

We would be wise to receive the wisdom of our spiritual forefathers.  The Westminster Catechists should continue to teach us that the chief end of man is "to glorify God, and to enjoy him forever." 

Wednesday, May 23, 2012

Tuesday, May 22, 2012

Grace in Rejection

He was despised and rejected by men;
a man of sorrows, and acquainted with grief;
and as one from whom men hide their faces
he was despised, and we esteemed him not. Isaiah 53:3


The Savior of all heavenly glory and beauty and worth was despised by men.  Never was greater value counted at greater loss. This is the Savior who says he has been tempted as I have been. What rejection, what lack of esteem, what sorrow and grief could I experience greater than his? What rejection by men, what loneliness and abandonment could be so greatly undeserved and so violently expressed? Surely this great high priest can help me in every temptation of rejection that I face. Surely mothers and fathers rejected by their children, preachers by their congregation, evangelists by their hearers, workers by their colleagues, students by their professors, family members by their dear ones--all have experienced rejection that they deserved more than he did. Surely they can be helped by the ready grace and help of this One "despised and rejected by men."

Tuesday, May 15, 2012

If We Believe All the Same Things, Why Do Our Churches Seem So Different?

If We Believe All the Same Things, Why Do Our Churches Seem So Different?  Worth the Read from Kevin DeYoung's Blog

If We Believe All the Same Things, Why Do Our Churches Seem So Different?

Many Christians see the church world in black and white. You have liberals on one side–they are the bad guys who doubt the resurrection and don’t believe in the Bible. And on the other side you have the good guys who believe in the miracles, do not waver on the deity of Christ, and want lost people to be saved. We call these folks evangelicals or conservatives or Bible-believing Christians. Give them a checklist of doctrines and they will get almost everything right.
Liberalism is a problem, but squishy evangelicalism is the much bigger problem.
I do not write thinking that churches self-consciously in the tradition of Bushnell, Beecher, and Briggs will do an about face, or that those in the stream of process theology, liberation theology, or feminist theology will abandon ship. I may vehemently disagree with full-on liberalism, but I can respect that there is an ecclesiastical and intellectual tradition behind it.
The audience I have in mind are those Christians, pastors, and churches that continue to affirm the basic contours of evangelical faith. They’ve never read Fosdick or Tillich or Schleiermacher. They don’t read the Christian Century. They don’t know much about Deutero- or Trito-Isaiah and don’t really care to waste any more time with documentary hypotheses. They think Paul wrote Ephesians and John wrote John. They love Jesus and want other people to love Jesus. If you ask these Christians, pastors, or churches if hell is forever and people must be born again, they’ll say yes. If you ask them whether you can trust everything in the Bible, they wouldn’t dare say no. They have no problem with any of the historic creeds and confessions. The people and institutions I have in mind gladly affirm penal substitution, the bodily resurrection of Christ, and a real historical Fall. The folks I want to address are energetic about evangelism. They want to see churches planted and people come to Christ. They think small groups, accountability partners, and mission trips are excellent. And at least in private conversation they’ll tell you that homosexuality is not. These Christians, pastors, and churches are not liberal. They don’t seem like one of the bad guys.
The problem is they don’t seem like the good guys either.
Have you ever been talking to a pastor or someone from another church and it seems like you should be kindred spirits. The person you meet is obviously a warm-hearted, sincere Christian. They don’t have a problem with any of the doctrines you mention as precious to you and your church. They don’t affirm liberal positions on major theological questions. They nod vigorously when you talk about the Bible and prayer and church planting and the gospel. And yet, you can’t help but wonder if you are really on the same page. You try to check your heart and make sure it’s not pride or judgmentalism getting the best of you. That’s always possible. But no, the more you reflect on the conversation and think about your two churches (or two pastors or two ministries) you conclude there really is a difference.
And what is that difference?
That’s something I’ve thought a lot about over the past few months. I’m sure I don’t have all the answers, but here are ten things that distinguish between what I would call a vibrant, robust Bible-believing church and one that gets the statement of faith right but feels totally different.
1. The mission of the church has gotten sidetracked. Recently I stumbled upon the website for a church in my denomination. Judging from the information on the site I would say this church thinks of itself as evangelical, in the loose sense of the word. Their theology seems to be of the “mere Christianity” variety. But this is their stated missional aim: “[Our] Missions are designed to connect people and their resources with opportunities to respond to human need in the name of Jesus.” A church with this mission will be very different from one that aims to make disciples of all nations or exists to spread a passion for the supremacy of God in all things for the joy of all peoples.
2. The church has become over-accommodating. I’m not thinking of all contextualization (of which there are some good kinds and some bad). I’m thinking of churches whose first instinct is to shape their methods (if not their message) to connect with a contemporary audience. And because of this dominant instinct, they avoid hard doctrines, cut themselves off from history and tradition, and lean toward pragmatism.
3. The gospel is assumed. While the right theology may be affirmed in theory, it rarely gets articulated. No one believes the wrong things, but they don’t believe much of anything. When pressed, they will quickly affirm the importance of Jesus’ death and resurrection, of penal substitution, of justification by faith alone, but their real passions are elsewhere. What really holds the church together is a shared conviction about creation care or homeschooling or soup kitchens or the local fire station.
4. There is no careful doctrinal delineation. Theology is not seen as the church’s outboard motor. It’s a nasty barnacle on the hull. You will quickly notice a difference in message and methods between the church whose operating principle is “doctrine divides” and the one that believes that doctrine leads to doxology.
5. The ministry of the word is diminished. While preaching may still be honored in theory, in many churches there is little confidence that paltry preaching is what ails the church and even less confidence that dynamic preaching is the proper prescription. No one wants to explicitly pooh-pooh preaching, teaching, or the ministry of the word, but when push comes to shove the real solutions are structural or stylistic. How often do those engaged in church revitalization begin by looking at the preaching of the word and the role the Bible plays in the practical outworking of the congregation’s ministry?
6. People are not called to repentance. It sounds so simple, and yet it is so easily forgotten. Pastors may call people to believe in Jesus or call people to serve the community, but unless they also call them repent of their sins the church’s ministry will lack real spiritual power. And this should not be done by merely encouraging people to be authentic about their brokenness. We must use strong biblical language in calling people to repent and calling them to Christ.
7. There is no example of carefully handling specific texts of Scripture. People will not trust the Bible as they should unless they see it regularly taught with detail and clarity. Churches may still espouse a high view of Scripture but without a diet of careful exposition they will not know how to study the Bible for themselves and will not be discerning when poor theology comes along.
8. There is no functioning ecclesiology. If you put two churches side by side with the same theology on paper, but one has a working ecclesiology and the other has a grab-bag of eclectic practices, you will see a startling difference. Careful shepherding, elder training, regenerate church membership, a functioning diaconate, purposeful congregational meetings–these are the things you may not know you’ve never had. But when you do, it’s a different kind of church.
9. There is an almost complete disregard for church discipline. If discipline is truly one of the three marks of the church, then many evangelical congregations are not true churches. All the best theology in the world won’t help your church or your denomination if you don’t guard against those who deny it. If we are to be faithful and eternally fruitful, we must warn against error, confront the spirit of the age, and discipline the impenitent.
10. The real problem is something other than sin and the real remedy is something other than a Savior. The best churches stay focused on the basics. And that means sin and salvation. Sadly, many churches–even if they affirm the right doctrine on paper–act and preach as if the biggest problem in the world is lack of education, or material poverty, or the declining morals in our country, or the threat of global warming. As a result we preach cultural improvement instead of Christ. We preach justice without Jesus. We lose sight that the biggest problem (though not the only problem) confronting the churchgoer every Sunday is that he is a sinner in need of a Savior.
If you read through this list and think you have everything down already, don’t be haughty. If we get all these right and are proud about it, we’ll rob ourselves and our churches of God’s blessing. But my prayer is that somewhere out there in the frozen tundra of the internet a pastor or a congregation or a church leader will read through these ten items and think, “You know, this may be what we’re missing.” The evangelical church needs depth where it is shallow, thoughtfulness where it is pragmatic, and conviction where it has become compromised. A casual adherence to a formal set of basic doctrines does not guarantee real unity and does not ensure genuine spiritual strength.